Friday, August 10, 2012

Respect, Honour and Pride

Assalamualaikum w.b.t to all. 
Haha, I'm back guys. haven't see you guys in a very long time huh.
I hope all of you are doing good insyaAllah.
Let me tell you something.
I was very busy, miserable and very disoriented while I'm not here. 
Yes, you know, busy for this, busy for that. 
Furthermore, the Eid is coming right? 
Got to manage some dinner for my beloved batch in Jordan this coming September.

Let's go straight to the point. 
What I'm going to tell you next is maybe a bit out of our-age-topic but come on, 
let's talk about it.

Respect, Honour and Pride.

These 3 words, keep me motivated up until these days.
Grands of appreciation to 'The Godfather Trilogy' for reminding me all of these virtues. 

What stands behind a successful man? 
Family is the absolute answer.
Because you know, your own family have done so much for you until you've reached this stage of excellence.

Love for your family teaches you to prioritize your responsibilities. 
They make you feel special. 
You'd done something with your heart because you know, you'd done it for them.
No one in this world would ever support you as strong as your own family.

The result is you will learn how to Respect other people, 
you will know what to be taken care of first in your own family, 
you will gain Honour and lastly, 
your Pride will stand still in the name of your family.

But, I strongly state here that I'm not against any 'LOVE' between a girl and a boy.
My point here is to make sure you guys know the proper person to be loved in the proper time.

For example, you are at most 20 years old, you can start dating a girl or a boy, but, you must love your family more right?
Then, your age become 25, you must focus your love toward your spouse.

That're the steps.
When you know how to treat your love, everything will be in order.

I'm dating someone, yes it's true, but it doesn't mean I have to put her in the first place instead of my family right?

So, I hope all of you, my dear readers get the message I tried to deliver here.
Don't get me wrong. 
When you think about your family, you do something for them, 
insyaAllah the outcome is superb.

Thank you for reading.
Hope we'll meet again soon. Happy fasting, Happy Ramadhan al-Mubarak,
assalamualaikum w.b.t.